I'm a husband and dad who was once dominated by addiction and dysfunction but am now best friends with acceptance and grace. Someone showed me the way, and I applied it to my family. I spent twenty years learning what didn’t work, then another twenty-plus years learning a better way. And I took notes. Now I want to help you and your family the way I was helped.
Any of this you?
YOU HAVE A NEMESIS
You have a super challenging family relationship where you're sure the other person is against you.
PAINFUL FAMILY GATHERINGS
You get apprehensive anticipating get-togethers with certain family members, or certain combinations of them.
DRAMA & NEGATIVITY
You hate seeing the same negative scenes and converations repeating over and over.
CAN WE JUST GET ALONG BETTER?
Maybe you just want your family to get along better and root for each other.
Well, let's go here:
RELIEF AND HEALING
You can close the gap, grow in understanding and appreciating each other, and smile and mean it..
LOOK FORWARD TO GATHERINGS
You can begin to esablish a track record of postiive and encouraging interractions at holidays, vacations, and gatherings.
PEACE & CALM
You can contribute to a growing momentum of calm encouragement and grace.
ROOT FOR EACH OTHER
You can more fully accept each other and even become each other's biggest fan.
A NOTE FROM GARY - HERE'S HOW CHANGE WILL HAPPEN
Family relationships have weather just like nature - sunny, warm, hot, cool, chilly, cold, stormy, right? We can change the climate in our family and relationships. You've believed this Is difficult because you weren't sure what to do, but it's totally possible. It's not extra time or labor, you just replace old thinking and behaviors with new.
It's like abandoning an old set of tools that don't work and picking up another set that does. And since family is designed to be contagious, changes begin to pick up momentum on their own. You just need some help and guidance. I've been there. I know the thinking and behaviors and tools. I'd love to help.
In the coming weeks and months, and even beyond, I'd like to help you shepherd your family in love and grace. To stay in touch - and to discover the one simple thing to STOP doing that will improve every family relationship you have, just click below and then leave your email.
I'd love to connect and talk soon!
One thing you could stop doing to help every family relationship improve
I've been Brenda's groom and nurturer for over 40 years. I'm the father of authors Emily P. Freeman and Myquillyn Smith (The Nester). I've held lesser assignments such as church elder, Bible teacher, podcaster, diesel engine assembler, folding chair riveter, Emergency Medical Technician, operations manager, radio morning show host and coach, and people listener. Brenda and I live just outside Charlotte, NC with our malshipoo Molly. My life's dream is to one day personally experience the nearly extinct Snickerdoodle Skinny Cow. Nice to meet you!
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